The details of this dream were elusive as I lay in bed trying to remember them but I think that what
I have recalled is reasonably accurate. Other than Donna and the woman in the blue dress, the
characters were vague and I had only a sense of their presence but never saw them or definitively
identified them. The objects on the other hand - the piano bench, the machine gun, the bus ticket,
the bicycle, the mailbox and the berries - were mostly detailed and clear. The setting, as I
understood it in the dream, and Darchelle's mother appearing as she does in a photo from my wedding
celebration with Darchelle on Orcas, both clearly reference Darchelle, whom is also the person
accompanying me in the dream. On the other hand I clearly associate the woman in the blue dress
with Susan when we were first married. The two houses themselves could suggest two marriages.
Taken together, these associations suggest that the dream is comparing aspects of my marriages to
Susan and to Darchelle.
Given that framework, it should be straightforward to identify the meaning of the other symbols but
that is not the case. I and my companion, with whom I am both familiar and comfortable even though
in my dream I do not clearly identify her, are packing to go on a trip. That trip is not identified
but could be a honeymoon, or a significant change of life situation such as marriage. If so, the
machine gun from the basement could represent emotional defenses, defenses which like the antique
and perhaps nonfunctional gun, may be ineffective and apparently unnecessary anyhow. With Susan, I
brought my defenses into the marriage and never relinquished them; that has been much less true of
my marriage to Darchelle. The process of packing and the items we packed suggest that entering into
marriage, I did not know what to expect, which was also more true with Susan than with Darchelle.
The piano bench might refer to setting up a home together since in both marriages, one of our early
acts together was to purchase a piano. The child's bicycle, which like the machine gun I decide we
do not need on our trip, may reflect that Darchelle and I do not have children together.
With the woman in blue I look back at my marriage to Susan. Symbolized by the glimpse of her
breasts, sex was part of Susan's appeal, something I did not recognize until after we were married.
An interest in gardening, and even berry-picking, was something I brought into my relationship with
Susan as well. The berry bush is a complex symbol; the clusters of berries resemble Viburnum
bushes, which I associate with Jackson, but the leaves are similar to those of the Daphne bush which
is currently flowering in Darchelle's and my front yard and the berries resemble the gooseberries
which grow in our backyard. Jackson, where I grew up and my parents have lived since I was first
married to Susan, is also suggested by the ticket which looks like a yellow Maple leaf and the
flesh-colored ball which I associate with croquet and also, albeit inexplicably, with youth and
naïveté, i.e. childhood. Jackson, while important in both my marriages, was probably more significant
in my marriage to Susan. Tension with in-laws in Jackson has cropped up in both relationships.
Donna's cameo at the conclusion of the dream suggests that ultimately, the dream is about my
marriage with Darchelle and the life which we, secure in each other's love, are living out together.